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I so believe that I lead a mundane life.
November 20, 2005
had an urge to blog, so here i am.
had this question in my head since last night, do you guys think of 'im not gd enuf to be together w him/her' as a reason/excuse for a breakup between a couple?
personally, i feel that its a dumb/useless/lame excuse or a reason for a breakup. and i do have my reasons for that. i think that its a reason or excused that has been used so repetitively that it has already lost its true meaning, to the extent that it is being used as commonly as 'i love you'.
to be able to be together, the term 'equality' has never been existent. you don't expect equal reciprocation of your love to the other party. someone has to give that little more, someone on the other hand, has to take that little more or less. so if one takes the amount he/she gives as a measure of how good or nice he/she is, i think it is not exactly the best representation.
of course, the guy in most cases, would want to shower the girl he is toegether with with loads and lots of love. he'll be willing to do anything outta e way just to please the girl, or make them happy. it might be true for the other way round too, but i've seen far too little cases that go this way. the guy will be damn bloody nice to the girl, be at her beck and call, and for some even put down their pride and ego to do something for their girls. yet, if they don't do such things, they may jolly well be accused of not loving the girl enough, and that he's not willing to do things for her.
so yea, the guys go on happily doing the things that think will make their gfs happy. but in the end, they're really putting themselves at a damn disadvantage. why? coz in the end, the guy will give the girl an extra reason for a breakup, that is the girl feels that the guy is too good for him, and that there is someone out there better for the guy, more suited for him.
i don't know if i'll get shot for saying this, but i think its an excuse most girls give in their breakups to make them seem more 'noble', that they're letting the better girls out there get a good guy. it might probably to an extent make them feel better about the breakup, and not put the fault totally on their shoulders.
haha. i dont know if anyone will understand what i just blogged, or what i've just said. pretty incoherent now, coz i nid to take a shit urgently n im rushing this entry thru. but its just my 2 cents worth about such a breakup excuse, with no particular people in mind ya.
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