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I so believe that I lead a mundane life.
October 21, 2005
yoOos.. its been a long time since i've blogged..or was it?
okay..results were out..not that bad =) upped my gpa by a little.. =D
as usual..did fyp for the whole of this week.. good thing that we've finished up with our basic 30 samples and going into another part of the project..which we still have no idea what we're gonna do.. kinda a o.O wait as to ayeo telling us or suggesting wat we're supposed to do..
hmm.. someone showed me one article on a particular chinese magazine during fyp.. and i found it to be pretty meaningful.. might put some things in a different perspective i would say.. the article goes something like that..
breakups are kinda inevitable in a relationship..its more of what happens after the breakup..some become enemies and hate each other's guts..some become platonic friends, some become good friends, and some even become zhi1 ying1 aka a bosom friend.. its how the way we handle it that sorta determines the outcome..
it also speaks about the person whom you've been may not be the ONE in your life, but may be a person that helps to mould u, 'train' you and make you into a better lover for the next person that may come into your life. so if you're in a very sweet and good relationship that sees no end, u should really thank the previous partners of your bf/gf for it is them whom have moulded your partner into the way they are now..
breakups are painful. but it all kinda boils down to a word of 'should'.. say if i like her, we should be together. if we're together, we should get married. and if we're married, we should stay together till the end of time.. its the expectations that people put into relationships and the 'should-have-beens' that makes a breakup that painful.
thats why, the author came up with a blueprint of love.. suggested that everyone has a blueprint of love, waiting to be discovered and unravelled. it gives a plan of how a person's love life to go.. how long will that person take before the ONE is really found. and people who have understood the meaning of this blueprint of love will take breakups better, coz they know that the previous one was just a 'pawn' in this blueprint of love, which was meant to make you into a better lover for your future relationships, and not meant to be with you till the end of time..
so this article to me, was pretty interesting.. coz no1 has toked to me about such an idea before, and i find it pretty meaningful and true.. breakups do make u a better lover, a better giver and taker. and it sorta makes ur future relationships better and sweeter..
well.. so should i just follow this and take it as a blueprint of love, or should i just forget about the whole idea and just be stubborn and keep this idea outta e window? its kinda confusing.. but its ok. people takes time to understand, and so do I :)
its a pretty rough patch again, but i guess things will blow through very soon..maybe when school reopens =)
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