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I so believe that I lead a mundane life.
October 27, 2005
Will you cross the fine line between friendship and romance?
Many people can, and of course want to, cross this boundary between purely friends and romance. A lucky few are able to trod the fine line being neither here nor there. But how many people are able to take a step back, and go from the side of romance, to the side of purely friendship again?
I've got no doubt many people do want this to be a two way thing, that is you can cross from one side to another, and hopefully from the other back to the original side just as easily. But in actual fact, it is not easy to do so, to cross from the side of romance back to purely friends. Its really a funny thing thats going on. If you stand on the side of friendship and not cross over to the side of romance, you'll lose romance, but yet, it'll be definitely easier to get back what you've lost. But if you stood at the side of romance, there are up and downs for sure, but most probably you'll lose the friendship, and it'll be darn hard to get it back. Not just platonic friendship, but friendship that the both of you once shared before getting together. Its totally impossible I should say, for there would never be two willing parties who've just broke up to be close friends again.
Some people would opt for the stage of companionship. The companionship of getting a listening ear from the other party whenever you needed it, the advice that you need in times when you need it most, and the 'knowing-somebody's-there-for-me-all-the-time' feeling. But if you do so, you lose out on the romance as well, and I can safely say 8 out of 10 of such cases will never get into a relationship.
Oh well. I'm just blabbering after my night run. Things do go wrong with all the endorphins and the adrenaline. You start thinking weirdly.
I do want to cross the boundary, back to being close friends again, just like the way we were before. The jokes, sms-es, messages, chats, late nights, movies, shopping etc. I don't know if I would be able to experience all those again with you anymore or not, but I do want to.
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